To forgive & forget...

Ada this quote.. from unknown..

“Men forget but never forgive. Women forgive but never forget.”



I may forgive, but I will never ever forget.

To forgive someone means that you have accepted the person's apologies.. It means that you are willing to give that someone a chance to make things right. It also means that you still have a heart and are willing to accept that someone to be with you.

To forget the things that that someone has done to you or to others, is quite hard. Personally, I cannot just forget the hurtful things that that someone had done or said to me. Even if it's just a little, minute silly thing which other people don't take it seriously.. But the little things mean the most, you see.. Especially if that someone is close to you.

I forgive but never forget. What I would do in such cases, is that I would try to move on and let things be.. As it was before.. Not entirely 'forget' the whole thing, but just move on with your life. What good is it if we were to wallow in our sadness and sorrow? What good is it if we were to plan on vengeful schemes to make a revenge on that particular someone?

Sigh..

Lastly, things which appear to the naked eye don't usually show the real, honest truth. Apa nya orang, "Don't judge a book by it's cover"..


A true friend values the meaning of friendship.
It's not just there to comfort you when you're emotionally in need..
(Meha, 2008)

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